Wednesday, July 15, 2009

Complementary Compliment

As some of you already know, I am a contributor over at In The Real World Venus vs. Mars. Today I will be talking about how my wife and I both complement and compliment each other. If you don't know what that means— please stop by and read my post called Complement and Compliment. And while you're at it, continue to read as there are several others who contribute with great articles as well.


Venus and Mars

Sunday, July 12, 2009

2009 Race to Mackinac

If you like sailing, or enjoy looking at sailboats, the 101st Race to Mackinac will be starting from the Chicago Yacht Club. I will probably get there early so that I can see all the boats before they go to the starting line. I am including information about the event in case you want to say bon voyage to the racers:

Saturday, July 18th
Chicago Yacht Club
400 E. Monroe Street, Chicago
7:00am – 10:00am Cash Stand Continental Breakfast (Patio)
10:00am – 2:00pm Parade of Boats (Navy Pier)
11:30am – 3:00pm Start of the 101st Race to Mackinac


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Hope to see you there.

Friday, July 10, 2009

F2: Squires Family Picnic

Welcome again to Friday's Feast. Today I'll be sharing a story about a picnic. If you don't know what Friday's Feast is all about, please read the Friday's Feast page for a more detailed explanation. If you want to join in on the feast— be sure to leave a comment and include the URL to your post so I and others can know of your contribution.


When I was in theater I played Mr. Squires the livery stable owner for the musical The Music Man. At one point during the play the entire cast would walk over the footbridge and go off to the picnic. The person who played Mrs. Squires and I both wanted to actually have the picnic and not pretend that it happened. So, we decided that we would have our own picnic in the green room before one of the Sunday matinee performances.

I didn't have a whole lot of time actually cooking for the picnic, so I picked up some chicken from KFC and went to the grocery store to buy plates, napkins, etc. "You can't have a picnic without ants" I said to myself… so I also bought some plastic ants that we could strew about the floor.

During our picnic both Mrs. Squires and I started to kid about one of our kids which we affectionately called "Billy". Interestingly enough, our little boy Billy eventually changed his last name from Squires to Squier and started a career in music. Amazing what a picnic can do for your career.


Next weeks topic is Hot dogs— or should I say "encased meats". Perhaps you have a story about the hot dog eating contest that went terribly wrong, or you know of a great place that has the best Polish in town. So… if you have anything that relates to this topic, be sure to leave a comment and include the URL so I can include you in next weeks feast. Even if you have already posted on this topic in the past— your links are always welcome.


Wednesday, July 8, 2009

My Life According to TMBG

Using only song names from ONE ARTIST, cleverly answer these questions. Pass it on to 25 people you like and include me. You can't use the artist I used. Try not to repeat a song title. It's a lot harder than you think! Repost as "My Life According to (ARTIST NAME)"

Pick Your Artist:
They Might Be Giants (TMBG)

Are you a male or female?
Exquisite Dead Guy

Describe yourself:
Which Describes How You're Feeling

How do you feel:
If I Wasn't Shy

Describe where you currently live:
Road Movie To Berlin

If you could go anywhere, where would you go:
Istanbul (Not Constantinople)

Your favorite form of transportation:
Dirt Bike

Your best friend is:
Particle Man

Your favorite color is:
Sapphire Bullets Of Pure Love

What's the weather like:
Snowball In Hell

Favorite time of day:
Dinner Bell

If your life was a TV show, what would it be called:
Spy

What is life to you:
Extra Savoir-Faire

Your relationships:
Women & Men

Your fear:
I Should Be Allowed To Think

What is the best advice you have to give:
O, Do Not Forsake Me

If you could change your name, you would change it to:
James K. Polk

Thought for the Day:
Someone Keeps Moving My Chair

How I would like to die:
Sleeping In The Flowers

My soul's present condition:
You're Older

My motto:
Till My Head Falls Off

Monday, July 6, 2009

Bad Blogger

Lately I have noticed that I cannot schedule a post. This has gotten me pretty frustrated in that I have to come back in the morning just to post something that I wanted to post at midnight.

I did find out that it is a problem that I am not alone with. There is a Known Issue posted by blogger in June. I am hoping that this feature comes back so that I don't have to get paranoid wondering why nobody has commented, only to find out I didn't post.

Friday, July 3, 2009

F2: Lemon Shake-ups

Welcome again to Friday's Feast. Today I'll be sharing my recipe for lemon shakeups. If you don't know what Friday's Feast is all about, please read the Friday's Feast page for a more detailed explanation. If you want to join in on the feast— be sure to leave a comment and include the URL to your post so I and others can know of your contribution.

Participants in this weeks Feast are as follows:


With inspirations from Honest Abe…

One year I went down to Springfield Illinois and attended the State Fair. When I was there they were selling lemon shakeups. Given that I have several cocktail shakers, I decided that I would make my own— besides it gives me practice pouring without having to drink liquor. Makes approximately 2 8oz glasses worth.

Lemon Shakeups:
1 Lemon
1 cocktail shaker (or two glasses)
Ice (4-6 Cubes)
Water
1/4 C sugar
  1. Slice the lemon.
  2. Add half of the sliced lemon to the shaker.
  3. Add a few Ice cubes (just enough to fill the shaker).
  4. Add the sugar to the shaker.
  5. Add water to fill the shaker.
  6. Put the lid on and shake your moneymaker (actually just the cocktail shaker).
  7. Pour into a glass.
  8. Enjoy.

Next weeks topic is Picnic. If you have ever attended a picnic (company, family, or otherwise) and have an interesting story to share, please do. Also, if you have any interesting picnic foods that you enjoy— you can let us know as well. So… if you have anything that relates to this topic, be sure to leave a comment and include the URL so I can include you in next weeks feast. Even if you have already posted on this topic in the past— your links are always welcome.


Wednesday, July 1, 2009

Choose Me

Those who choose to know me
know me well.

Those who choose to ignore me
will, over time, learn to accept me.

Those who choose to refuse me
will never know me.

cj09'


Life is full of choices. How we know someone is also a choice.

There is a statistic that I heard that the average person can know about 150 people simultaneously. Based upon the post Pick Me, everybody picks a friend. Once someone picks you as a friend it is your choice as to how you treat them in your relationship.

Choosing to know someone
When someone picks you as a friend you may find that you want to get to know that person and become more of a friend. You make an effort to try and get to know that person and get to know their personal characteristics such as Name, Occupation, Health, and Feelings. It is through this effort that you truly become a friend.
Choosing to ignore someone
I have a tendency to be very forward when it comes to letting people know I want to be their friend. This in itself may be intimidating and freaks some people out who are caught off guard. In these situations, it is easy to ignore someone who is being friendly towards you because you do not know if you want to be their friend or not. I notice that over time I become less intense— which makes people more comfortable with me. They then understand where I am coming from and accept me as someone who picked them as a friend.
Choosing to refuse someone
It takes effort to try and know someone. Likewise it takes effort to refuse someone. You will go out of your way to let that person know that they are not welcome. You will give them the silent treatment, or tell them straight up that you do not want them hanging around with you.

What I find interesting is that the number of people who fall into each category resembles a bell curve. Most people tend to fall in the ignore category— probably because it is easier to not put forth any effort and choose not to pay attention. There are very few people who choose to know me— and there are very few people that I suspect refuse me as well. I have learned to accept this distribution and am not offended by it because it makes sense to me.

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